If
you’re a fan of this subgenre what elements do you look for in books? If you’re
a writer, do you like to explore the lighter side of BDSM or the darker, more
edgy side in your books? As a writer, I'd love to know what readers like and don't like.
Spanking,
bondage, the power exchange between a Dom and his submissive, a female Domme
and male sub, MM, FF, or a combination ménage, fireplay, needle or knife play,
electrical shock, humiliation, voyeurism and a variety of role playing scenes.
There are so many flavors in the BDSM world.
With
a little imagination and a like-minded couple, sex (or erotic books) never has
to be boring!
EMERALD DUNGEON Video: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=m2XWIKl_D7Y
Personally,
I like reading a variety from light to dark and edgy, but I tend to write on
the lighter side. Although, I think a few scenes may be considered a little
dark. Even if I read the hardcore BDSM with one eye open, I’m fascinated and
love this genre, and if the writing is good, intrigued by the connection
between the characters.
Some
authors prefer to stay out of the club scene and write a more personal story
behind closed doors. That’s cool, I love those stories and I’ve written both club
and private scenes. There’s a different dynamic in a club scene, a potential
for conflict not found in a bedroom scene. Although, there is potential conflict
galore in the bedroom too! I do like the voyeuristic edge in a club as I
confess to being a bit of a voyeur.
Last
year I attended Dr. Charley Ferrer’s BDSM Writer’s Workshop in NYC and visited
Paddles, a BDSM club. I had my voyeuristic side gratified during these nights.
Some scenes were easier to watch than others. A few like needle play in
intimate areas I couldn’t watch at all. A scene between a Sadist and his lovely
Masochist was compelling and I was riveted at first. I sat on a restraining bed
watching (no I wasn’t restrained) as the scene developed, but after a while, I
had to quietly walk out. It was much too intense for me. I did get a glimpse of
what someone looks and acts like in subspace—a few people. A quick description would
be a cross between a runner’s high and slightly drunk.
Research
in books could never compare to attending these nights at the club and my own
personal experience with a Domme. Yes, why pass up an opportunity like this? MaryAnn,
a sweet Domme volunteered to demo a flogger on me. Bared from the waist up, I
faced the St. Andrew’s Cross. She started out with light strokes and increased
the intensity. Periodically, she stopped and checked in on me. I told her she
could go harder. I wanted to feel the pain to better describe it in my books. I
think I was able to go further than expected probably because I was in a loft
area, looking down at all of the wonderful people, totally amazed and very
distracted. I did say I’m a bit of a voyeur, maybe more than a bit. J
My session finished with MaryAnn and I had my memory and research for my books,
and the next day quite a few bruises.
The
warm and wonderful people were so open and friendly and willing to share their
thoughts and experiences and welcomed my questions. I greatly appreciate their
kindness.
BDSM
books by Kathy Kulig:
DESERT OF THE
DAMNED, Book 1 Demons in Exile series (BDSM elements)
DAMNED AND DESIRED,
Book 2 Demons in Exile series (BDSM elements)
DAMNED AND DEFIANT,
Book 3 Demons in Exile series (BDSM
elements)
“Tattoo
Witch” in SOMETHING
WICKED THIS WAY COMES, Vol I
SUMMER
SINS – Coming soon
It's all about the shoes.
