Dirty Dates - Erotic Fantasies for Couples @dirtydatesbook

Do you like BDSM erotic? Rachel Kramer Bussel has a new anthology coming out on November 10^th, which happens to be her birthday! DIRTY DATES-Erotic Fantasies for Couples has 22 hot stories of kinky date nights. Blindfold, handcuffs, flogger, spanking?

What happens when date night involves a blindfold, a corset, handcuffs, or a spanking? The couples inDirty Dates combine kink and romance in this collection of erotic stories that provides plenty of ideas for your next sexy outing. Your 50th date can be even hotter than the first ones if you play by the rule of Rachel Kramer Bussel, which means NO rules at all except for an emphasis on pure pleasure. Rachel Kramer Bussel has quickly become America's favorite erotic writer with dozens of best-selling books, awards, and deeply satisfied readers to her credit. Dirty Dates is a delectable collection of stories redolent with romance featuring two people in lust. From first dates to long-term lovers to hook-ups and missed connections, the common theme is coming together in every sense of the word!

Need some ideas to spice up date nite? Within the pages of this book, there are a number of kinky couples who know just how to do that. Naughty adventures, play parties, bondage, role playing or pushing the limits beyond that sexy comfort zone in the bedroom. Want something more creative than the usual dinner and a movie???

Hmmm. Then grab your hunky date and sit down to read these stories. You’ll need someone close by to—Ahem—take out your inspiration on.

There are plenty of stories to please and entice your curiosity or kinky, erotic read fetish. Besides all that, it’s a fun and entertaining read. On your next date, maybe you can pour a glass of wine and read these stories aloud. And see how the night goes.

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Cleis Press

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Here’s the table of contents and introduction:

Introduction: Kinky Is as Kinky Does
The Corset Dorothy Freed 
The Swap Jade A. Waters
Slow Burn Morgan Sierra 
The World in My Pants Valerie Alexander
Lying Down Kathleen Delaney-Adams 
The Rabbit Trap Nik Havert 
Closing Time Elise Hepner 
A Thousand Miles Apart Tilly Hunter 
Switch Mina Murray 
The Birds and the Bees Giselle Renarde 
Potluck Alva Rose 
Magic Words Emily Bingham 
Polka-Dot Dress Erzabet Bishop 
Baby Steps Justine Elyot 
On Location D. L. King 
Well Lit Sara Taylor Woods 
A Soundproof Room with a View Leigh Edward Gray 

Recipe for Punishment Jacqueline Brocker 
Cry to Me Skylar Kade 
Needles Kathleen Tudor
Admitting It Is the First Step Rachel Kramer Bussel

Check out other books and find out the latest by Rachel Kramer Bussel:

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Talking Sex. Is Your Kink Out of Sync? #Erotic #BDSM

I’m reading a really hot BDSM novel where the heroine is discovering her desire for BDSM. The conflict in her relationship is intense. She likes to feel pain, to be spanked. Bondage excites her too. She wants her lover to make her feel the hurt to heighten her senses, break down the barriers, otherwise she doesn't feel the pleasure. Vanilla sex is boring.

Expressing these kinky desires to her lover is a risk, but she’s brave and she decides to tell him what she wants and needs. Her confession turns their relationship into a nightmare.

At first, she’s embarrassed and ashamed by these feelings because her current boyfriend thinks anyone into that stuff is sick. He thinks she has emotional problems. Friends and family, unaware of her troubles, tell her how lucky she is to be with the current guy who happens to be wealthy, but is a total jerk. Ignoring her attempt to reach out to him and express her sexual desires, he bullies her instead. He criticizes her, tells her she’d essentially be nothing without him.

She's working for one of his clients and arranges to get her fired. She doesn't need to work if they’re going to be married, he says. Her friends and family tell her he’s so generous. They don’t get he has taken away her chance to be self-sufficient. He doesn't abuse her physically, his abuse is psychological. Fortunately, this woman meets another man who recognizes her submissive nature and makes her see the confident, beautiful, self-sufficient woman she is.

This Dom helps her explore her sexual desires without guilt or shame. Helps her find a job and a friend of his helps her find a place to live.

When your kink isn’t my kink

This story got me to think about what couples would do when one partner’s sexual interests evolve to a more kinky adventurous side while the other doesn't doesn't change and is even resistant to change. If the couple is just dating, they may not go further into the relationship and end it. But what if the couple has been married for a while?

This is my opinion and I’m not a therapist, but I believe an individual’s sexuality evolves, changes and is shaped over the years. Many factors affect those changes like life experiences, number of lovers, social and cultural backgrounds, environmental, etc.

Loving communication, patience, a sense of humor and perhaps a sense of adventure are characteristics that would benefits couples struggling with a paradigm shift in their sexual relationship.

Try introducing small changes in the bedroom. Go at the pace of the most hesitant one, as long as both are trying to make changes.

If that fails, a good sex therapist is a good idea.

Steel Reflections is the title of a short story accepted by Cleis Press for a BDSM anthology that has a similar theme. The heroine goes to a BDSM club for a session with a Dom, at the suggestion of her boyfriend. She’s a submissive, he’s vanilla. They’re both hoping the session will get these fantasies out of her system. But will they? And what will this do to her relationship?

I plan to write more on this theme since I do like the struggle and conflicts it causes between characters.

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