Tuesday, May 22, 2012

ONE Tip for Looking HOT in a Bathing Suit this Summer


When people hear diet and exercise they usually think—been there, done that, why bother? They feel overwhelmed, discouraged, frustrated. That it’s a race they’ll never finish. Maybe they think it’s a commitment they don’t have time for, or they’ll never see results, or the results won’t last, or it’ll cost too much, or someone is trying to sell them the latest gimmick, etc.

I just watched a short video by Tony Horton, a fitness and nutritionist expert from Beachbody. And someone asked him, what is the ONE food we should avoid?

He thought a moment and said, processed meats like hotdogs or sausages. Or packaged cakes and high sugar snacks. Then he said, forget that. Focus on eating ONE GOOD SALAD A DAY. Not just a little lettuce with a couple pieces of tomato and loaded with fatty/sugary dressing, but a salad with a variety of ingredients and go light on the dressing. Try adding different things so you don’t get bored.

*Sliced avocado, strawberries, dried cranberries, mushrooms, red peppers, cucumbers, mango, garbanzo beans, carrots, Greek olives, Feta cheese, onions, fennel, fresh basil and/or other herbs, cubed mozzarella, mandarin oranges, kiwi slices, chopped walnuts, bean sprouts, etc. What do you like to add to your salad?

That made me think. ONE good salad a day. ONE change a day toward good health and looking better. That's not too overwhelming.

Make ONE change in your eating habits. Cut back on the unhealthy stuff—you know what they are, and replace them with something healthy. Instead of a donut or giant bagel, try Greek yogurt with fresh fruit for breakfast for mid-morning break. Try water with lemon instead of soda. Instead of an huge, fatting lunch, try a healthy salad. Or add a salad at every dinner and omit ONE unhealthy item french fries, soda (even diet), pastries, etc. Not that you'll never have them ever again, just not every day.

Exercise ONE more day a week. Take a walk during your lunch break or after dinner or go to the gym. No gym membership? Use a workout DVD at home. Beachbody has a number of excellent choices with nutritional meal suggestions that come with each set. I also drink ONE Shakeology shake a day and I have since August. I’m down to the weight I was in my 20s and feel great. Not into shakes? That’s fine, then try to make ONE other healthy change in your lifestyle NOW. Find what works for you. Small consistent changes will give results. Results don't happen over night. One change will eventually turn into a new healthy habit.
 
Here’s a salad recipe to try. We have this one for dinner. The peanut dressing does have some calories. Don't need a lot for the flavor. But if you opt for a lower cal. dressing, try a lite vinaigrette instead.


Recipe: Thai Steak Salad w/ Peanut Dressing (serves 4)
 

Peanut Dressing (to follow)

6 cups washed mixed greens

2 ripe mangos, peeled, pitted, sliced

2 cups bean sprouts, rinsed/drained

2 med. Tomatoes, cut into wedges

1 med. Cucumber, sliced

Shredded carrots

½ lb. thin-cut sirloin tip steak (sandwich steak)

½ tsp. ground red pepper or curry powder

Cilantro leaves

1.    Prepare Peanut dressing, set aside.

2.    Arrange greens, mango slices, bean sprouts, tomatoes and cucumbers on four plates.

3.    Season steak with red pepper. Grill or broil 4-6 minutes, until desired doneness, turning halfway through grilling time. Cut steak into thin strips on cutting board.

4.    Arrange steak on top of salad. Serve with dressing, garnish with cilantro.



Peanut Dressing

¾ cup creamy peanut butter

½ cup plus 2 Tablespoons water

3 T. rice vinegar

2 T. light soy sauce

2 T. molasses

1 T. anchovy paste (optional)

2 T. chopped cilantro

2 T. chopped green onion

½ tsp. ground red pepper.


Combine peanut butter, water, vinegar, soy sauce, molasses in medium bowl with wire whisk until smooth. Stir in cilantro, green onion and red pepper. (makes 2 cups)

Sunday, May 13, 2012

Indie Publishing, The Shelfless Book


This weekend Pocono Lehigh Romance Writers were fortunate to have Jen Talty as their workshop speaker. The topic—Self-Publishing: What Really Are Your Options. Jen is an author and runs the technical side of Cool Gus Publishing with NY Times Best-Selling Author Bob Mayer, and she teaches Creative Writing at various conferences. She also is a marketing expert. Her talk went over the three hours planned and she was very generous sharing much valuable information on self-publishing, author branding, social networking and marketing. The workshop was well worth going to even if you aren’t planning to self-publish anytime soon. The same holds true for the book she and Bob Mayer wrote: The Shelfless Book. It’s a must read for all writers. There is a ton of valuable information about an author’s career path, author branding, defining goals, social media, marketing, the digital process and numerous tips for success.

In a world of instant gratification, I’ve noticed how writers seem to be in such a hurry to get their book up on Amazon/Barnes & Noble/etc., then expect to see the money roll in. As Bob would say: Forgetaboutit. Writers spend a lot of time writing a book, usually months, even years, but then many writers are in too much of a hurry to send it out to an agent/editor, OR slap a cover on it, format it haphazardly and throw it up on Amazon, Smashwords and Barnes and Noble. Then they complain because they get a rejection or aren’t selling thousands or hundreds of self-pubbed copies.

For Indie publishing: What about beta readers, editors, copy editors, a really good cover, correct formatting that will be tested and read on ALL devices not just the one or two the author owns. The digital formating might look okay on your Kindle, but hidden code might screw up the formatting on other devices. And you’ll get nasty emails from your readers. There are also different programs offered by Amazon and Barnes and Noble for selling the book. Are you going to put the book up for Free? How long? If not, how much are you going to charge? Etc., Etc…

Thorough planning and organizing are necessary for success in Indie, traditional or small press publishing—or if you plan a career in any combination of these.

Success isn’t an escalator. It’s a stairway—a LOOONG stairway and you have to make the effort to climb it. Persistence and patience.

Who you are as a writer (your brand) and what your goals are, are important for success. This is something that I’ve been giving a lot of thought to lately and also struggling with. Wandering aimlessly from writing project to writing project won’t make you a successful author. I haven’t done that exactly, I do have several books planned and set career goals. But as I’m growing and learning as a writer, I noticed my career path and goals have to be reassessed. I need to adjust my brand, change my focus. All writers should continue to learn and grow and not remain stagnant even if they are very successful.

Reading The Shelfless Book, gave me some great ideas about my brand and picking Jen’s brain (poor Jen) helped me immensely! I now have a plan, and a focus, and will be making some changes.

One point hits home in the book: “…you are going to have to [take] chances. If you play it safe, you might not have a large failure but you also won’t have any great successes.”

I have to highly recommend TheShelfless Book. I also bought Write It Forward: From Writer To SuccessfulAuthor. That one is worth reading too. Check out their blog for regular posts http://writeitforward.wordpress.com/

Tuesday, May 8, 2012

Meet Tracey H. Kitts Guest Author

Tracey H. Kitts
Welcome and thanks for joining us Tracey to talk about your latest release and other fun stuff. Thanks for doing the interview.

-Tell us a little about the book and where did you get the idea to write this story.

The idea for Frank and The Werewolf Tamer started pretty simply. I had never read anything sexy about Frankenstein before. Now, don’t get me wrong, my character Frank Eastwick, isn’t your traditional Frankenstein monster. In fact, I don’t consider him a monster at all. However, there are enough similarities that the name fits. I thought of this character and then asked myself, “Why should Dracula and The Wolfman get to have all the fun?” By the way, I’ve had more readers tell me this character (Frank) is drop-dead-sexy than any other character I’ve ever written. Now that’s encouraging.

Frank and The WerewolfTamer is available in ebook and print.

Blurb:

Katherine has had a hard time finding work, mostly because she’s a vampire. Turns out, people aren’t clamoring to work with the undead. She goes to the massive theme park, Notte Oscura, as a last resort. What Katherine doesn’t realize is, there’s a lot more waiting for her than just a job.



 

- What’s the best and worst part of being a writer?

The best part of being a writer is getting to share your thoughts and feelings with the world. The worst part is figuring out how to get the world to read it. Ha. Ha.

- What is your writing schedule like?

This is probably going to make a lot of people cringe, but I don’t have a schedule. The more I limit myself, the more my creativity is strangled. When I’m working on a new book, I try to work on it each day for as much time as I can. For example, when I wake up, I turn on the computer. I’ll then take short breaks to eat, a longer break to workout, and a few breaks to do laundry. Once my son gets home from school, I usually stop for the day. If a story is really flowing, I might work on it some more after everyone is asleep. The middle of the night is a great time when nothing else has to be done. When you stay home and write, much of the housework (if not all) falls on you. That’s something a lot of people don’t realize. I also take days off in between when I’m at a good stopping point. If not, my family gets really upset and complains that they are ignored. When I’m really into a project, I average between 6-10 pages a day.

- How did you get started writing novels?

I always knew I wanted to be a writer, the length of the work never entered into the equation at first. Writing novels was always one of those things, “I’ll do someday.” So, one day in 2007, I decided it was about time. In three months I wrote books one and two of my Lilith Mercury series. Four months after that I had a publishing contract. I’ve never looked back.

- If you could turn any of your books into a movie which book or series would it be?

I’ve always thought my Lilith Mercury: Werewolf Hunter series would make an excellent choice for HBO.

- Do you have any favorite movies?

It may be surprising, since I write romance. (And love it.) But, I do not like most movies labeled “romance.” I also have a special hatred for romantic comedies. Ha. Ha. Ha. My idea of a romantic comedy is The Princess Bride. Most movies that get labeled as romance are very depressing to me. I’m not into tragedy. I get that it may be closer to reality. But whoever said you go to the movies for reality? I go to escape reality and expand my imagination for a few hours. Personally, I love horror movies. It’s become my favorite genre as there hasn’t been any decent fantasy since Lord of the Rings. Be still my heart! I just remembered that the new Lord of The Rings movie, The Hobbit comes out this December AH! Okay, I’ve got a grip now. I promise.

-Do you write a novel straight through? Or revise as you go? Plan a whole series in advance? Or does the series evolve?

It is slightly different every time. There have been several books I wrote straight through in the beginning. Now, almost 5 years later, I tend to pause and take a couple of weeks off right in the middle. I do this to be sure the ending is clear in my mind. It helps me avoid plot holes. Ha. Ha. Okay, so that’s funny when you say it out loud. Oh, and I always revise as I go. I’ll write a chapter and then read it over the next day before I move forward. It helps make editing at the end move faster.

As for planning a series, I knew in the middle of book one that the Lilith Mercury story would become a series. There was just too much to tell in one book.

- Which books were the most fun to write? The hardest to write?

There are several books that come to mind for this. Once I get into a story, I mean really into it, I always have a blast. Only one was ever hard to write and that was a novella, Three Days of Night. It was so different (in my mind at least) from what I normally write, that I kept pausing and asking my writing partner, “Is this too out there?”

- What’s next?

Well, I just had a new release with Ellora’s Cave also, Constant Cravings. I am currently making notes on two new book ideas. Plus, as contracts are expiring on some of my backlist, I’m re-vising, re-editing, and in some cases adding lots of content before re-releasing those on my own. I’m very excited about this as I’ve also been doing the cover art for my indie books myself. Did I mention I did the cover for Frank and The Werewolf Tamer also? It was my very first.

- Do your books have a particular theme or premise?

At first, I didn’t think they did. I simply write paranormal romance. But then I realized (very recently) that all of my books tell the story of Beauty and The Beast. They just tell it very differently. But if you’re looking for a theme, it’s there. I think that’s kind of sweet and not entirely surprising. It has always been my favorite fairy tale.

-Would you like to share something surprising about you that not many people know?

I’m not sure how many people know it. Maybe my Facebook friends. (LOL) But, I’m a big video game nerd. I have a particular fondness for epic RPG games. I’m so into Dragon Age right now, I feel like I know the characters personally.

I also collect Batman comics, though I’m very selective. I don’t go for value, but rather my favorites.

I also stay pretty physically active, despite all these lovely “sit on your butt” activities I love. Right now, I’m training for my very first 5k.

- For fun. What is your favorite kind of chocolate or chocolate dessert? (I love chocolate covered cherries)

I love really gooey chocolate brownies when they’re hot out of the oven.

Here’s where people can find me:



Sunday, April 29, 2012

Self-Publishing Event w/ Jen Talty May 12th


Pocono Lehigh Romance Writers Special Event with Speaker Jen Talty: Self-Publishing:
What Really Are Your Options?
May 12, 2012

Are you a published author considering publishing your backlist or an unpublished author considering self-publishing?

Authors have more choices today than ever before, but the process can be overwhelming. While this is not a step-by-step technical class, the workshop is designed to give you enough information to make informed decisions on how to get your e-Book on all formats possible. Pocono Lehigh Romance Writers have a special guest speaker this month, and we're opening this workshop to outside guests.
This workshop with Jen Talty, Author of Who Dares Wins Publishing, will look closely at self-publishing distribution channels: from what kind of file and the various options you will need to upload your e-Book, to all the various platforms such as Kindle, Nook, iBooks and Smashwords, and what are the best strategies to getting your book up for sale. We will discuss doing it yourself, outsourcing and team-building options.

For directions and payment information, check the PLRW.org website or follow this link http://www.plrw.org/jen-talty-special-event

LOCATION: 11 a.m.-2:30 p.m., May 12, 2012
Palmer Library, 1 Weller Place, Easton, Pa.


Speaker Information: Jennifer Talty co-created Who Dares Wins Publishing with New York Times best-selling author Bob Mayer, and helps run the day-to-day administrative side of the company. She is published in romance under the pen names of Jenni Holbrook and Hollie Brooks. She also teaches creative writing at various writing conferences across the country and does freelance editing and technical writing. She holds a bachelor’s degree in business education with a concentration in marketing and sales from Nazareth College of Rochester.

Thursday, April 19, 2012

50 Shades of Grey: Hot Lessons for Authors



By now, I’m sure you’ve heard about the New York Times Best Selling book Fifty Shades of Grey by EL James. It’s an erotic romance set mostly in Seattle about a very wealthy man, Christian Grey and a naïve college grad Anastasia Steele. The story features their struggling romance and depicts explicit sex scenes with elements of BDSM. If you check out the reviews on Amazon, you’ll see they’re very skewed. Either readers love it or hate it. 1,662 last I checked. 816 were 5 stars, 402, 1 star.

Whatever their impression of the book, tons and tons of readers are reading and talking about the book.

So, what can authors learn from this to help improve their own writing career?


Dig into the book, read it but don’t tear it apart.
One thing I’ve notice the first time any author hits it big, is how people instantly jump to pick that author and the book apart, trying to find fault. I’m saddened when this happens, especially when other authors do this. And I understand we all have different tastes and won’t like everything we read. I’m talking about authors who rip another author’s work apart. Bad Karma in my opinion.


Sure we would all like to be getting the kind of royalties EL James is getting, and I’m sure there are a number of erotic and BDSM authors thinking: “Why not my book?”

But instead of thinking that way, we should be thinking: WHY her book? What did she do RIGHT? And learn from it. We can’t forget that James opened up the erotic fiction market to a public who has never read an erotic book before. After this group of new readers finishes the 50 Shades trilogy, many will be searching out other authors. Hello? New blood, yeah! That’s a great thing for all of us!!!

True, the relationship in 50 Shades does not depict a ‘normal’ loving BDSM relationship. Christian is screwed up. He was sexually abused as a child. And Ana is overly naïve, but at least she (for the most part) stands up for herself and isn’t TSTL (too stupid to live). They both have a lot of emotional baggage but there is something compelling between them that I think is deeply emotional and brilliant. AND, THIS IS FICTION.

When I read a book I want to escape and be entertained. Fiction is fantasy and I’m there for the ride, I don’t care if every detail is or isn’t precisely accurate as long as it fits for the story.

Christian and Ana are atypical characters in an atypical BDSM relationship. They’re flawed, their relationship is flawed, but deep down they’re good and caring people, trying to find their way through the dark. And isn’t that what makes this story so compelling?

Tips for Writers. What I got from 50 Shades of Grey. Or any blockbuster author.

·         Don’t write cookie cutter characters. Find something unique in each character. Normal, everyday people may be accurate but they’re boring.

·         Don’t write to trends. Watch, in the coming year you’ll see a rush of BDSM books that will be out on the market. If you write that genre, fine, but come up with your own twist. If you don’t write BDSM erotic fiction, think twice before jumping onto the bandwagon. Are you true to your brand or trying to get rich quick? Is bondage something you really want to write or are you going to have to force it. Readers will know.

·         Read the blockbuster books. Not to copy or parallel your story, but to get a feel for the spark that makes that particular book a hit. Was it the characters? The unique plot? The depth of emotion? The edgy rawness?  Etc. How can you improve your writing to strengthen those areas?

·         In an interview with EL James, she said she originally didn’t write the series to be published but to express what she felt deep inside. As a writer, dig deep and find those emotions and transpose them into words on the page.

·         Be thrilled for EL James and her success. Supporting another author also supports us all.

“Do not go where the path may lead, go instead where there is no path and leave a trail.” ~ Ralph Waldo Emerson.

Friday, April 13, 2012

Ready for Spring Break?



SPRING BREAK is out!!! Are you ready for the Road Trip? This time of year when the weather gets warmer and the days get longer, cabin fever sets in and the desire for a spring break vacation is overwhelming. If you can't get away, then maybe a sexy, hot read to a tropical beach locale will do it for you. Spring Break is for those who wish they could go back and relive their spring break and add a very erotic twist.

Starting today I'll be "leaving" on my cyber tour. The list of blogs are below. Check out the sites. I have interviews and plan to talk about a variety of topics. If you leave a comment with your email on any blog, I'll be drawing a name at each one for a FREE ebook download from my back list. Winners chosen at random.

4/13: Cerise Deland's Blog w/ contest
4/13: Mari Carr's Blog w/ contest
4/16: NJ Walter's Blog w/ contest
4/16: Francesca Hawley's Blog w/ contest
4/17: Romance Lives Forever Blog
4/24: The Romance Studio Blue Blog
4/26: TRS Parties w/ contest
4/26: Author Island Cyber Launch Blog w/contest

Road Trip ends on the beach. Meet me there.

Saturday, April 7, 2012

The Mystical Magical Muse


One thing I hear all the time from readers is: Where do I get my ideas from?

First of all, I don’t believe there’s some elemental creature or beautiful Greek goddess floating around the ether or an alternative dimension plucking ideas out of the universe, and then deciding that I’m worthy enough for that idea to have it dropped into my brain.

I think all writers are wired from birth to be writers. Just like some people are wired to learn languages easily, others can almost instinctually learn to play a musical instrument or three, some people can calculate math problems in their head and some have a sixth sense for directions. It’s internal wiring in my opinion. We have that particular ability, or gift, because the potential wiring is there.

Even if a person doesn’t begin to write until his adult years, that brain potential is there. Some writers claim they’d written their first book when they were six, or wrote stories when they were children, or TOLD imaginative stories, or loved to read, or had an over active imagination, or daydreamed, etc., etc. But that doesn’t mean you’re not a true writer if you never had any of these ‘tells’ at a young age. Maybe a potential writer didn’t have the environment to allow the expression of one or more of these ‘tells’ that proved he was always meant to be a writer. This is the analytical side of me.

Besides having the ‘hardware’ to being a writer, and that doesn’t mean you have to have an IQ of 180, there is another component that all writers have that can’t be described. An elusive spark or drive or desire. It’s like a candle that burns brightly within the soul of a writer that can’t be extinguished.

No matter how many rejections, bad reviews, disasters in their personal life, failed attempts or criticisms from readers, friends and family members, the spark remains. And the writer keeps writing and continues to learn. Someone who is intelligent and has the ability to write, might say, “I’m going to write a book one day”, but they’ll never finish a book because they don’t have that spark.

So, where do I get my ideas from? EVERYWHERE. When I’m not even trying to come up with a story idea, they just come to me. Most of my ideas come when I’m doing something other than writing or when I’m not trying to come up with an idea: sitting at my microscope at work, working in my garden, working out in the gym, working on home improvements in my house, traveling. I’ve gotten sparks for story ideas from listening to people at restaurants/bars, hiking, standing in line for a ride at Disney, watching a movie. An interesting title popped into my head for a story I hadn’t even written yet and the story developed from just the title. That’s happened a few times.

I can’t explain where the ideas come from any more than I can explain how I can remember some simple thing that happened when I was five but can’t remember what I had for lunch last Tuesday.

So I can't tell you where the idea came from for my new book Spring Break which will be coming out at Ellora's Cave on Friday. Unless I was ready for a vacation and my mind warped it into something sexy and hot. Hope you'll check it out. I think it's a fun read.